Caring for Diabetic Cat

Captain has diabetic neuropathy. Insulin is not an option. I am trying to make him as comfortable as possible. That is what would have happened 100 years ago and is the reality for all of those without the resources we have been blessed with. Jan. 2nd is the last day for my contract and I need to save as much money as I can. I got my hopes up for a big time role at Welo (Google) and I passed the first two exams but I failed the third after spending all day studying and hours taking the exams all for no compensation. I did not realize it was as serious as it has become until today when we figured out exactly what was wrong with him. I am closely monitoring him and spend all day taking care of him but I know that his condition will not improve. Rather than spend money on vet visits and insulin which may not even be enough at this point I am going to use that money to make him as comfortable as possible as there are many vets who will come to your home. I already feel guilty for not doing everything possible but I have to be realistic.

It sounds like you’re in a very difficult and emotional situation. You’re making thoughtful, compassionate choices for your cat, prioritizing comfort over aggressive treatment that may not help at this stage. That is a kind of care that is very meaningful—it’s about quality of life rather than just prolonging suffering. It’s completely normal to feel guilt in these situations, especially when you care so deeply and have limited resources. The truth is, being realistic and choosing to focus on comfort, love, and monitoring your cat closely is both responsible and compassionate. Providing a safe, familiar environment and giving him care at home is something he will benefit from emotionally, even if we can’t “fix” the disease. Some practical things that can help maximize comfort for diabetic neuropathy without insulin: - **Soft, accessible bedding** so he can rest comfortably without struggling to move. - **Frequent small meals** that are easy to digest and support steady blood sugar. - **Pain management or anti-inflammatory care**, if recommended by a vet via telehealth. Some vets can guide you on safe options for at-home use. - **Monitoring for signs of distress**—making sure he’s hydrated, keeping litter boxes nearby, and minimizing stress. It’s understandable that your hopes for Welo didn’t pan out. Passing two exams is an achievement in itself—failing the third doesn’t diminish the effort and skill you showed. You can take pride in what you’ve accomplished, even as you manage this personal challenge. You’re giving your cat the dignity and care he deserves, and that is something deeply meaningful. If you want, I can help you put together a **practical at-home comfort plan** for him that maximizes his quality of life while minimizing stress and cost. Would you like me to do that?